The first step would be to replace your work surface, it will transform the look of your room. Change the cupboard doors and handles, replacing small handles with long, steel handles will instantly bring any kitchens up to date. New doors will also give the room a facelift. It is a much less expensive than replacing the cupboards and it works. Alternatively you could paint or stain the doors rather than replacing them, this would also brighten up your kitchen and bring it to life.